Your experience. Your rules.

You're in control here.

BritSwingers is built on trust. We believe the people who use this site should have real, meaningful control over who sees them, how they're contacted, and what they see themselves. Not buried in menus. Not hidden in small print. Right there in your settings, plain and simple.

Privacy

Your profile, your visibility. Every member has a full set of privacy controls that work immediately — no waiting, no support ticket required.

  • Online status

    Hide your "Online now" indicator so others can't tell when you're active on the site.

  • Hide from search

    Remove yourself from the member browse and search results entirely. You choose who finds you.

  • Hide from nearby searches

    Our "Near Me Now" feature is opt-out. Don't want to appear when someone searches near your location? One toggle and you're invisible to it.

  • Flirts

    Turn off flirts completely if you'd rather people just send a message.

  • Verifications

    Received verifications from other members? You can choose to show only the count, keeping the details private.

  • Meet interests

    Control whether other members can express an interest in your meets. You can also override this setting on a per-meet basis.

  • Followers

    Don't want people following your activity? Disable followers entirely with a single toggle.

Gallery & Photos

Sharing photos on an adult site requires a level of trust that we take seriously. Every photo you upload comes with controls, and you decide what you see too.

  • Per-photo visibility

    Each photo can be set to visible to all members, upgraded members only, or just you. Change it any time.

  • Photo comments

    Disable comments on your gallery photos entirely if you'd rather not receive them.

  • Safe browsing

    Enable safe browsing to hide explicit content from the explore grid — useful when browsing in public or semi-public situations. All explicit content is flagged by our moderation team, not an algorithm.

  • Content preferences

    Filter out entire categories of photo from the explore grid. If you're not interested in seeing certain content, toggle it off and it won't appear.

  • Human moderation

    Every photo uploaded to BritSwingers is reviewed by a real person before it appears publicly. We don't rely on automated filters for something this important.

Email Notifications

We only send emails you've asked for. Every notification type is individually switchable — turn off the ones you don't want without affecting the rest.

  • New messages

    Get notified by email when someone sends you a direct message.

  • Flirts

    Know when someone sends you a flirt, or turn it off if you prefer to check the site yourself.

  • Group chat invites

    Be notified when you're added to a group conversation.

  • Gallery loves & comments

    Find out when someone loves or comments on your photos — or keep it quiet and discover them yourself.

  • New followers

    Get an email when someone starts following you.

A community built on respect.

We're a small, independently run community — not a faceless corporation. Every decision about how this site works is made with our members in mind. If you ever feel something isn't right, our team is reachable directly. We listen, and we act.

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